Category: Healing

Listen up, my friend. We need to have a real talk about reaching your full potential and the mental obstacles that are holding you back from your goals and securing generational wealth for your children. I’m here to give you some tough love because I believe in you. It’s time to address that self-doubt and self-criticism that’s been sabotaging your path to financial success. Let’s dive deep, confront those mental barriers head-on, and unleash your true potential.

1. Owning Your Inner Critic: Facing Self-Doubt and Negative Talk Stop letting that inner critic run the show, my friend. It’s time to acknowledge those self-doubts and negative thoughts that hold you back. You are capable, talented, and deserving of financial success. Challenge those negative beliefs and replace them with affirmations that remind you of your worth and potential.
2. Embracing Growth: Pushing Past Comfort Zones It’s easy to stay within our comfort zones, but growth happens when we push beyond them. Don’t let fear hold you back from taking risks and seizing opportunities. Embrace discomfort, embrace failure as a stepping stone to success, and step into new territory. It’s through these challenges that you’ll discover your true potential.
3. Overcoming Analysis Paralysis: Taking Action in the Face of Uncertainty Enough with the overthinking, my friend. Analysis paralysis will only keep you stuck. It’s time to make decisions, even in the face of uncertainty. Trust your instincts, gather the necessary information, and take that leap of faith. Remember, progress is born from action, not endless contemplation.
4. Embracing Failure as a Learning Opportunity: Resilience in the Face of Setbacks Failure is not the end—it’s a chance to learn, grow, and come back even stronger. Don’t let a setback define you or dampen your spirits. Embrace failure as a valuable learning experience, adjust your approach, and keep moving forward. It’s through resilience that you’ll overcome those mental obstacles and achieve greatness.
5. Seeking Support and Constructive Feedback: Surrounding Yourself with Allies You don’t have to do this alone, my friend. Seek support from those who believe in you, whether it’s friends, mentors, or coaches. Surround yourself with allies who will provide constructive feedback and challenge you to reach new heights. Embrace their guidance and use it to fuel your growth.
6. Celebrating Your Wins: Acknowledging Your Progress and Successes Stop dismissing your accomplishments, my friend. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small they may seem. Recognize your progress, acknowledge your hard work, and give yourself the credit you deserve. Celebrating your successes boosts your confidence, fuels your motivation, and keeps you on the path to greater achievements.

Conclusion: Now, my friend, it’s time to take control of your destiny and confront those mental obstacles that have been holding you back. Silence that inner critic, step out of your comfort zone, and take action. Embrace failure as a learning opportunity, seek support from allies, and celebrate your wins along the way. You have untapped potential within you, waiting to be unleashed. Believe in yourself, embrace the journey, and let your determination and resilience guide you to the financial success you’ve always desired. It’s time to rise above self-doubt and claim what’s rightfully yours. Now go out there and show the world what you’re made of!

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American maternal health aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

Motherhood is a beautiful and transformative experience, but it can also be challenging and overwhelming, especially when it comes to mental health. Unfortunately, there is still a stigma around mental health, and mothers are often hesitant to seek help for fear of being judged or seen as a failure. In this article, we will explore the importance of breaking the stigma around mental health in motherhood and seeking support when needed.

The reality is that motherhood can be stressful, and it is not uncommon for mothers to experience mental health challenges. According to the American Psychological Association, up to one in seven women experience postpartum depression, and many more experience anxiety, mood disorders, and other mental health challenges throughout motherhood. These challenges can be caused by a variety of factors, including hormonal changes, lack of sleep, isolation, and the pressure to be the perfect mother.

Despite the prevalence of mental health challenges in motherhood, there is still a stigma around seeking help. Many mothers feel ashamed or embarrassed about their mental health struggles, and they may worry that seeking help will make them appear weak or incompetent. This stigma can be especially prevalent in communities of color, where there may be cultural and societal pressures to appear strong and resilient at all times.

However, the reality is that seeking help for mental health challenges is a sign of strength and resilience, not weakness. It takes courage to admit when something is not right and to take steps to address it. By seeking help, mothers can get the support they need to overcome their challenges and become better mothers to their children.

So how can mothers break the stigma around mental health and seek support?

The first step is to recognize that mental health challenges are normal and that seeking help is a sign of strength. It is important to remember that seeking help does not make a mother a failure, but rather a proactive step towards becoming a healthier and happier parent.

The second step is to find a support system. This can be a trusted friend or family member, a therapist or counselor, or a support group for mothers such as the Kuponya Group. It is important to find someone who can provide a safe and non-judgmental space for sharing and listening.

Additionally prioritizing self-care is so important. Mothers often put the needs of their children and families before their own, but it is crucial to take time for oneself. This can include practicing mindfulness, getting regular exercise, engaging in creative activities, or simply taking a break when needed.

Fourthly, It is also important to create a support system that includes healthcare professionals. This can include a primary care physician or OB/GYN, as well as a mental health professional. These professionals can provide screening and treatment for mental health challenges, as well as referrals to specialists if needed.

Lastly, it is important to recognize that seeking help is an ongoing process. Mental health challenges may come and go throughout motherhood, and it is important to continue seeking support as needed. This may involve regular check-ins with a mental health professional or participating in a support group.

Breaking the stigma around mental health in motherhood is crucial for the well-being of mothers and their families. By recognizing that mental health challenges are normal and seeking support when needed, mothers can become better equipped to handle the stresses and challenges of motherhood. This can lead to happier, healthier families and a brighter future for all.

In conclusion, motherhood can be challenging, and mental health challenges are not uncommon. However, there is still a stigma around seeking help, which can prevent mothers from getting the support they need. By breaking the stigma and seeking support, mothers can become better equipped to handle the challenges of motherhood and become happier, healthier parents. It is time to prioritize mental health in motherhood and create a supportive and non-judgmental space for mothers to seek help when needed.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American motherhood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

Growing up with a narcissistic parent can be a traumatic experience. Narcissistic parents are often manipulative, controlling, and emotionally abusive. They may make their children feel like they are never good enough and can leave a lasting impact on their self-esteem and mental health.

However, there are ways to combat the effects of growing up with a narcissistic parent. Here are some tips for dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic parenting:

1. Seek Support

One of the most important things you can do is to seek support from others. Whether it’s talking to a therapist, joining a support group, or confiding in a trusted friend, it’s important to have people in your life who can offer you validation, understanding, and emotional support.

2. Set Boundaries

Setting boundaries is crucial when dealing with a narcissistic parent. This means being clear about what you will and will not tolerate, and communicating those boundaries in a firm but respectful way. It may also mean limiting contact with your parent, especially if they continue to be emotionally abusive or manipulative.

3. Practice Self-Care

Self-care is an essential practice for anyone, but it’s especially important for those who have experienced narcissistic parenting. This means taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental health. It may involve things like exercise, meditation, therapy, or spending time with people who make you feel good about yourself.

4. Challenge Negative Self-Talk

Children of narcissistic parents often internalize the negative messages they receive, leading to a negative self-image and low self-esteem. It’s important to challenge these negative beliefs and replace them with more positive and affirming self-talk. This may involve seeking the help of a therapist or practicing self-compassion and self-love.

5. Forgive Yourself

It’s important to remember that none of what happened was your fault. Children of narcissistic parents often blame themselves for their parent’s behavior, but it’s important to recognize that you were not responsible for your parent’s actions or feelings. It’s important to forgive yourself for any mistakes you feel you made, and to focus on moving forward and creating a positive future for yourself.

In conclusion, growing up with a narcissistic parent can be a traumatic experience, but there are ways to combat the effects of narcissistic parenting. Seeking support, setting boundaries, practicing self-care, challenging negative self-talk, and forgiving yourself are all essential steps in healing and moving forward. Remember, you are not alone, and there is hope for a brighter future.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American maternal health aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

Epigenetics is a big word that may seem hard to understand, but it’s actually a really cool and important topic that affects Moms of color and their children. In fact, epigenetics can explain how some things that happened to our ancestors can still affect us today!

First, let’s talk about what genes are. Genes are like the blueprint for our bodies. They determine things like our eye color, hair color, and even how tall we are. We inherit genes from our parents, but did you know that we can also inherit something called epigenetic changes from our parents too?

Epigenetics is like a little switch that can turn our genes on or off. These switches can be turned on or off by things like our environment, diet, and lifestyle. But here’s the really cool part: these switches can also be turned on or off by things that happened to our ancestors!

For Moms of color, this is especially important to understand because some harmful experiences like racism, poverty, and trauma can leave a mark on our genes that can be passed down to our children. This means that the things that our ancestors went through can still affect us today.

But don’t worry, this doesn’t mean that we’re stuck with these harmful marks on our genes forever. In fact, by understanding epigenetics, we can take steps to protect our children and future generations.

One of the most important things we can do is to make sure that we take care of ourselves and our children. This means eating healthy foods, getting enough sleep, and finding ways to reduce stress. When we take care of ourselves, we’re not only protecting our own health but also the health of future generations.

Another important thing we can do is to create a positive and supportive environment for our children. Studies have shown that a supportive and loving environment can actually help to turn off harmful switches that may have been turned on by our ancestors.

It’s also important to remember that we’re not alone. By connecting with other Moms of color and seeking out resources, we can find support and guidance on how to protect our children and future generations.

In conclusion, epigenetics is a really cool and important topic that affects Moms of color and their children. It can explain how some harmful experiences from our ancestors can still affect us today. But by understanding epigenetics, we can take steps to protect our children and future generations. By taking care of ourselves, creating a positive and supportive environment, and connecting with others, we can help to break harmful cycles and create a brighter future for our children.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American maternal health aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.