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Hood Healing: Self-Care for Moms Who Grew Up in Chaos

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Hood Healing: Self-Care for Moms Who Grew Up in Chaos

Motherhood is hard enough, but when you grew up in chaos, it can feel like you’re constantly trying to rewrite your story while living it. Maybe you had to raise yourself, maybe love felt conditional, or maybe survival mode was your default setting. But guess what? You’ve made it through every challenge thrown your way—and that means you have the strength to change your mindset, redefine your life, and use your past as fuel for your future.

Turning Pain into Purpose

Hood healing isn’t just about coping—it’s about thriving. It’s about smiling through the chaos not because life is easy, but because you refuse to be broken by it. Your past doesn’t define you; it prepares you. Every hardship you’ve endured has built resilience, and that resilience is your greatest asset.

How to Reframe Your Struggles & Use Them for Growth

1. Recognize Your Power

You have survived things that would have broken others. Instead of seeing yourself as someone who suffered, see yourself as someone who overcame. Remind yourself: If I made it through that, I can make it through anything.

2. Reframe Your Story

Instead of saying, I went through hard times, try saying, I learned valuable lessons that made me stronger. Your past isn’t just pain; it’s a blueprint for your growth and a reminder of how far you’ve come.

3. Use the Chaos as Motivation

The things that once held you back can now push you forward. If you grew up without stability, you can create it for yourself and your children. If you were told you weren’t enough, prove to yourself that you are more than enough. Your struggles aren’t obstacles—they’re stepping stones.

4. Build a Mentality of Abundance

Instead of focusing on what you lacked, focus on what you’re creating. Healing is about choosing joy, even when it’s hard. It’s about seeing the good, finding laughter in the madness, and knowing that better days are ahead.

5. Smile Through It, But Feel Through It Too

Healing doesn’t mean ignoring your pain—it means transforming it. Laugh when you can, cry when you need to, and remember that both are signs of strength. Your emotions are valid, and your healing journey is uniquely yours.

The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything

When you stop seeing yourself as someone who’s struggling and start seeing yourself as someone who’s winning, everything changes. Your past didn’t break you—it prepared you. Your hardships didn’t define you—they refined you.

You are strong, you are capable, and you have the power to turn your past into purpose.

Final Thoughts

You are not just surviving—you are thriving. You are not just pushing through—you are rising. And every time you choose to smile, heal, and move forward, you are breaking cycles and creating a better future for yourself and your children. The chaos may have shaped you, but it does not own you.

Take a deep breath, mama. You are unstoppable.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Moon Cycles & Motherhood: Honoring Your Natural Rhythms

Moon Cycles & Motherhood: Honoring Your Natural Rhythms

Moon Cycles & Motherhood: Honoring Your Natural Rhythms

Did you know the moon can help guide us in how we feel and move through life? Just like the moon changes in the sky, our bodies and emotions also have cycles. For moms, paying attention to the moon’s phases can be a great way to find balance, take care of ourselves, and feel more connected to nature.

Understanding Moon Cycles

The moon moves through different shapes every month. These are called phases. Each phase has a different energy that can affect how we feel:

  1. New Moon 🌑 – A time to rest and set goals. Think of it as a fresh start!
  2. Waxing Moon 🌒 – This is when the moon grows bigger. It’s a great time to try new things and be creative.
  3. Full Moon 🌕 – The moon is at its brightest! This is when we have the most energy and feel excited.
  4. Waning Moon 🌘 – The moon starts getting smaller. This is a time to slow down, let go of stress, and relax.

How Moms Can Use Moon Cycles

The moon can remind us when to work hard and when to take a break. Here’s how you can follow the moon to help with parenting and self-care:

  • New Moon: Take some quiet time for yourself. Set small goals for the month ahead.
  • Waxing Moon: Try fun activities with your kids! Paint, cook, or start a new hobby.
  • Full Moon: Plan family time! Have a game night, go outside, and enjoy feeling full of energy.
  • Waning Moon: Clean up your home, do a relaxing activity, and get ready for the next cycle.

Does Science Support This?

Some people believe the moon affects our sleep, moods, and energy. Studies show the full moon might change how well we sleep and make people feel more awake. However, there is no strong proof that periods and moon cycles are always linked. Scientists are still learning more about this!

Easy Ways to Follow the Moon

  1. Keep a Moon Journal – Write down how you feel during different moon phases.
  2. Have a Moon Night – Pick one night a month to go outside, look at the moon, and talk about feelings with your kids.
  3. Plan Your Schedule with the Moon – Try new things when the moon is growing and rest more when it’s getting smaller.

Final Thoughts

Paying attention to the moon can help moms feel more balanced and in control. It’s a fun and natural way to stay connected with yourself and your family. Next time you see the moon, think about how it might be guiding you!

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Why Every Mom Deserves a Solo Date (And How to Plan One!)

Why Every Mom Deserves a Solo Date (And How to Plan One!)

Why Every Mom Deserves a Solo Date (And How to Plan One!)

Motherhood is a beautiful journey, but it can also be exhausting, overwhelming, and all-consuming. As moms, we pour so much into our children, partners, and responsibilities that we often forget to pour into ourselves. That’s why every mom deserves a solo date—a special time dedicated to self-care, self-discovery, and pure enjoyment without any guilt.

The Importance of Solo Dates for Moms

  1. Reconnecting with Yourself – When was the last time you did something just for you? Solo dates give you the space to remember who you are beyond being a mother.
  2. Reducing Stress – Stepping away from responsibilities, even briefly, can refresh your mind and spirit, helping you to show up as a more present and energized mother.
  3. Boosting Confidence – Spending time alone builds self-love and reminds you that you are enough, just as you are. Engaging in activities that bring you joy fosters a sense of self-worth.
  4. Modeling Self-Care – When your children see you taking care of yourself, they learn the importance of balance and boundaries. This teaches them that self-care is not selfish but necessary.
  5. Enhancing Creativity – Time alone allows your mind to wander and explore new ideas. You may discover new interests, hobbies, or solutions to challenges in motherhood and life.

How to Plan the Perfect Solo Date

1. Choose a Date & Time

Pick a time that works best for you and commit to it—just like you would for any important appointment. Treat it as sacred time for yourself, and don’t let other obligations take priority over it.

2. Decide on Your Activity

Your solo date should be something that brings you joy and relaxation. Here are some ideas:

  • Café or Bookstore Visit – Enjoy a warm drink and a good book, or simply soak in the peaceful atmosphere.
  • Spa Day or Bubble Bath Night – Pamper yourself with a luxurious bath, face mask, or even a professional spa treatment.
  • Nature Walk or Beach Stroll – Reconnect with peace and nature by taking a walk in a park or along the shore.
  • Movie Night (Alone!) – Watch that film you’ve been wanting to see without interruptions or compromise.
  • Creative Escape – Try painting, journaling, knitting, or a fun DIY project to spark creativity.
  • Music and Movement – Dance freely in your living room, do yoga, or attend a dance class to release energy and stress.
  • Take Yourself Out to Dinner – Enjoy a solo dining experience at your favorite restaurant. Savor the meal, and enjoy your own company.
  • Staycation or Mini-Retreat – Book a night at a hotel or an Airbnb for an extended solo experience away from your usual surroundings.

3. Set the Mood

Make it special! Wear something that makes you feel confident, play your favorite music, and fully embrace the experience. Treat yourself the way you deserve to be treated—this is your moment to feel valued and cared for.

4. Unplug & Be Present

Turn off notifications, put your phone on silent, and allow yourself to be fully in the moment without distractions. Social media can wait—this is your personal escape.

5. Reflect & Celebrate Yourself

After your solo date, take a moment to appreciate yourself for making time for YOU. Maybe even journal about how you felt, what you enjoyed, and what you want to do next. Acknowledge that your well-being matters and that you are worthy of prioritizing yourself.

Final Thoughts

Every mom deserves joy, rest, and time to herself—not just occasionally, but regularly. A solo date is not selfish; it’s an act of self-love and an investment in your well-being. By making space for yourself, you become a more fulfilled and balanced person, which benefits not just you but your family as well.

So, what’s stopping you? Plan your solo date today, prioritize your joy, and reclaim your peace, mama!

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Beyond the Bounce Back: A Holistic Approach to Postpartum Healing

Pregnancy is a life-changing experience that brings with it immense joy, but it also presents numerous physical, emotional, and psychological challenges. The period following childbirth, often referred to as the “postpartum” phase, is a time of significant transformation for a woman’s body and mind. The notion of “bouncing back” after pregnancy, however, has often been portrayed in unrealistic terms, focusing primarily on quickly regaining pre-pregnancy physical appearance. In reality, postpartum recovery is about so much more than physical fitness—it’s about healing, adjusting to a new life, and embracing the changes with grace and patience.

Redefining “Bouncing Back”

The traditional idea of “bouncing back” often emphasizes returning to a pre-pregnancy body as quickly as possible, fueled by societal pressures and images of celebrity moms who seem to effortlessly shed baby weight in record time. However, this narrow focus overlooks the broader and more important aspects of recovery. True postpartum recovery involves a holistic approach that encompasses physical health, mental well-being, and emotional resilience.

1. Physical Recovery: Healing from the Inside Out

Pregnancy and childbirth are intense physical processes that take a toll on a woman’s body. From hormonal changes to physical alterations like weight gain, stretch marks, and changes in breast size, the body undergoes a tremendous transformation. After childbirth, it’s crucial to give the body time to heal.

Rest and Recovery: The postpartum period is a time for rest and recovery. Whether you’ve had a vaginal delivery or a C-section, your body needs time to heal. This can include allowing your abdominal muscles to come back together, giving your uterus time to shrink back to its pre-pregnancy size, and letting any tears or incisions heal properly.

Gentle Exercise: While there’s often pressure to jump back into intense exercise routines, it’s essential to start slow. Gentle exercises like walking, pelvic floor exercises, and postpartum yoga can help your body gradually regain strength and mobility. Always consult with your healthcare provider before starting any postpartum exercise routine.

Nutrition: Proper nutrition is vital for recovery. A balanced diet rich in vitamins, minerals, and protein helps support the healing process, provides energy, and can also support breastfeeding if you choose to do so. Remember, it’s not about restricting calories but about nourishing your body to aid in recovery.

2. Mental and Emotional Recovery: Embracing the Changes

The postpartum period is also a time of significant emotional and psychological adjustment. Hormonal shifts, lack of sleep, and the demands of caring for a newborn can contribute to feelings of anxiety, sadness, or even postpartum depression.

Acknowledge Your Feelings: It’s normal to experience a wide range of emotions after childbirth. From overwhelming joy to bouts of anxiety or sadness, all these feelings are valid. Acknowledge them without judgment and understand that it’s okay not to feel “okay” all the time.

Seek Support: Surrounding yourself with a supportive network can make a world of difference. This could include your partner, family members, friends, or a support group of other new moms. Don’t hesitate to reach out for help when you need it—whether it’s for a listening ear, practical support, or professional help from a therapist or counselor.

Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. The pressure to “bounce back” can often lead to negative self-talk or feelings of inadequacy. Remind yourself that recovery is a journey, and it’s okay to take it one day at a time. Celebrate small victories, whether it’s getting through a challenging day or simply taking a moment for yourself.

3. Redefining Identity: The New You

Motherhood brings a shift in identity that can sometimes feel overwhelming. The transition from being an individual to being responsible for another life can lead to a sense of loss or confusion about who you are outside of being a mother.

Embrace the Change: Recognize that it’s normal to feel a sense of identity shift after having a baby. Instead of trying to “get back to the old you,” embrace the new you that is emerging. This new identity includes all the wisdom, strength, and love that come with being a mother.

Rediscover Your Passions: While your priorities may have shifted, it’s important to make time for the things you love. Whether it’s a hobby, a career, or simply time spent with friends, reconnecting with these passions can help you feel more grounded and fulfilled.

Balance and Boundaries: Finding balance as a new mom can be challenging, but it’s important to set boundaries that allow you to take care of yourself as well as your baby. This might mean scheduling time for self-care, delegating tasks, or simply saying no when you need to.

Conclusion: Embracing the Journey

Bouncing back after pregnancy is about more than just physical recovery—it’s about embracing the journey of becoming a mother, with all the changes and challenges that come with it. It’s about giving yourself the time and space to heal, both physically and emotionally, and redefining what it means to be your best self.

Rather than succumbing to societal pressures to quickly return to your pre-pregnancy self, focus on the things that truly matter: your health, your well-being, and the precious time spent bonding with your baby. Remember that every woman’s postpartum journey is unique, and there is no “right” way to recover. By prioritizing self-care, seeking support, and embracing the changes with compassion, you can emerge from the postpartum period not just as a stronger mother, but as a stronger, more resilient version of yourself.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Parenting Through Overwhelm: Understanding the Feelings and Finding Solutions

Parenting is often described as one of life’s most rewarding experiences, but it can also be incredibly overwhelming. The responsibilities of raising children, managing a household, and balancing personal and professional commitments can leave even the most capable parents feeling exhausted and stressed. If you find yourself feeling overwhelmed, know that you are not alone—and that there are ways to navigate these challenges while taking care of yourself and your family.

The Reality of Parenting Overwhelm

Feeling overwhelmed as a parent is a common experience, though it’s not often discussed openly. The demands of parenting are constant, and the pressures can accumulate quickly. Whether it’s the sleepless nights with a newborn, the challenges of managing a toddler’s tantrums, or the emotional complexities of raising a teenager, every stage of parenting brings its own set of difficulties.

For many parents, the sense of overwhelm can stem from a combination of factors:

  • Lack of Sleep: Sleep deprivation is a reality for many parents, especially those with young children. Over time, chronic lack of sleep can lead to irritability, difficulty concentrating, and heightened stress.
  • High Expectations: Parents often place high expectations on themselves to be perfect or to meet societal standards of what a “good” parent should be. This pressure can lead to feelings of inadequacy and stress when things don’t go as planned.
  • Balancing Multiple Roles: Juggling the roles of caregiver, partner, employee, and individual can be incredibly taxing. The constant need to switch between these roles can leave parents feeling pulled in too many directions at once.
  • Isolation: Many parents, especially new ones, may feel isolated or disconnected from their support networks. This can be exacerbated by the demands of parenting, which can make it difficult to find time for socializing or self-care.
  • Financial Stress: Raising children comes with significant financial responsibilities, and the pressure to provide for a family can contribute to feelings of overwhelm.

The Emotional Impact

When overwhelm sets in, it can manifest in various emotional and physical ways. You might find yourself feeling anxious, irritable, or easily frustrated. There may be moments when you feel like you’re failing as a parent or that you’re not doing enough for your children. Physically, you might experience fatigue, headaches, or even burnout. These feelings are valid, and acknowledging them is the first step toward finding solutions.

Solutions for Managing Parenting Overwhelm

While the challenges of parenting are real, there are strategies that can help you manage feelings of overwhelm and create a more balanced, sustainable approach to parenting.

1. Prioritize Self-Care

It’s easy to put your own needs on the back burner when you’re focused on caring for your children, but self-care is essential. Taking time for yourself—even if it’s just a few minutes each day—can help you recharge and better handle the demands of parenting. Self-care can include anything from taking a walk, meditating, reading a book, or enjoying a hot bath. The key is to find activities that help you relax and feel re-energized.

2. Seek Support

You don’t have to do it all alone. Reaching out to friends, family, or a support group can make a big difference. Sometimes, just talking about what you’re going through can alleviate some of the stress. Don’t hesitate to ask for help with childcare, household tasks, or even just a listening ear. If you’re feeling particularly overwhelmed, consider seeking professional support from a therapist or counselor who specializes in parenting or family issues.

3. Set Realistic Expectations

Let go of the idea of perfection. Parenting is messy and unpredictable, and it’s important to set realistic expectations for yourself and your children. Recognize that it’s okay to have bad days and that you don’t need to have all the answers. Focus on doing your best rather than striving for an impossible standard.

4. Simplify Your Routine

Take a look at your daily routine and identify areas where you can simplify or delegate tasks. This might involve cutting back on activities that are not essential, delegating chores to other family members, or finding ways to streamline your responsibilities. Simplifying your routine can help reduce the sense of being overwhelmed and give you more time to focus on what truly matters.

5. Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and acknowledging your thoughts and feelings without judgment. Practicing mindfulness can help you stay grounded and reduce the emotional intensity of feeling overwhelmed. Simple mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing, can be incorporated into your day, whether it’s during a moment of quiet or while you’re engaging with your children.

6. Take Breaks

It’s okay to take breaks when you need them. Whether it’s stepping outside for a few minutes, taking a short nap, or engaging in an activity you enjoy, giving yourself permission to take breaks can help you reset and return to your parenting duties with a clearer mind.

7. Focus on Connection

When you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s easy to become disconnected from your children. Instead of focusing on what’s going wrong, try to find moments to connect with your kids, even in small ways. This could be as simple as sharing a hug, playing a game together, or talking about their day. These moments of connection can remind you why you love being a parent and provide a sense of fulfillment amid the chaos.

Conclusion: Embracing the Journey

Parenting is a journey filled with highs and lows, and feeling overwhelmed is a natural part of that experience. The key is to recognize when you’re feeling this way and to take proactive steps to manage it. By prioritizing self-care, seeking support, and setting realistic expectations, you can navigate the challenges of parenting while maintaining your own well-being.

Remember, it’s okay to ask for help and to acknowledge that you’re doing your best. Your children don’t need a perfect parent—they need a loving, present, and resilient one. By taking care of yourself, you’re not only improving your own mental health but also setting a positive example for your children, teaching them the importance of balance, self-compassion, and resilience

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Understanding the Internal Impact on African American Motherhood

The Unseen Struggles and Triumphs: Understanding the Internal Impact on African American Motherhood

The internal world of an African American mother is a complex landscape shaped by a unique confluence of joy, challenges, resilience, and the weight of societal expectations. As nurturers, caregivers, and pillars within their communities, these mothers navigate a distinctive path that profoundly affects their internal well-being. This, in turn, influences their parenting styles, the emotional health of their children, and the legacies they build for future generations.

Internal Experiences and Their Impact

Research indicates that African American mothers face specific stressors, including racial discrimination, economic disparities, and societal pressures that uniquely impact their mental health (Jones et al., 2019). The internalization of these stressors can lead to heightened levels of anxiety and depression, which are significantly higher among African American women compared to their counterparts (Watson, et al., 2020). This internal struggle often goes unseen, as these mothers strive to provide stability and support for their families.

The concept of “weathering” suggests that the cumulative stress experienced by African American women can lead to premature aging and health issues, which further complicates their internal experience and capacity to engage fully in motherhood (Geronimus et al., 2006). Despite these challenges, African American mothers often employ resilience and coping strategies that reflect their strength and determination to overcome adversity.

The Role of Community and Social Support

The African American community has long recognized the importance of collective support and solidarity. Studies have shown that social support can buffer the effects of stress and improve mental health outcomes for African American mothers (Taylor et al., 2015). Engaging in community activities, spiritual practices, and open dialogues about mental health can provide a sense of belonging and relief from the isolation that often accompanies internal struggles.

Implications for Parenting and Child Development

The internal state of a mother significantly influences her parenting practices and, by extension, the emotional and psychological development of her children. Children are remarkably perceptive and can sense their mothers’ emotional states, which can affect their own sense of security and well-being (Morris et al., 2017). Therefore, addressing the internal challenges faced by African American mothers is not only crucial for their health but also for the healthy development of their children.

Cultivating Internal Wellness: Strategies for Healing

  1. Self-Care and Mindfulness: Encouraging African American mothers to prioritize self-care and engage in mindfulness practices can help mitigate the effects of stress and promote internal healing.
  2. Therapeutic Support: Access to culturally competent mental health services can provide a safe space for these mothers to process their experiences and develop coping strategies.
  3. Community Engagement: Strengthening community ties and creating support networks can reduce feelings of isolation and provide practical and emotional support.
  4. Educational Programs: Implementing educational programs that focus on mental health awareness and stress management can empower African American mothers with the knowledge and tools they need to navigate their internal landscapes more effectively.

Conclusion

The internal experiences of African American mothers are intricately linked to their roles as caregivers, their children’s well-being, and the broader societal landscape. By acknowledging these experiences and providing support through community, therapeutic interventions, and self-care practices, we can begin to address the challenges and celebrate the strengths unique to African American motherhood. This holistic approach not only fosters healing and resilience but also paves the way for future generations to thrive in a society that recognizes and values their contributions and struggles.

References:

  • Jones, S.C.T., et al. (2019). Racial discrimination and health among African American women: A literature review from 2003 to 2013. Journal of Racial and Ethnic Health Disparities, 6(3), 1-19.
  • Watson, N.N., et al. (2020). Depression and anxiety among African American women: The costs of strength and negative attitudes toward psychological help-seeking. Cultural Diversity and Ethnic Minority Psychology, 26(4), 570-580.
  • Geronimus, A.T., et al. (2006). “Weathering” and age patterns of allostatic load scores among blacks and whites in the United States. American Journal of Public Health, 96(5), 826-833.
  • Taylor, R.D., et al. (2015). Risk and resilience: The role of social support for African American adolescents. The Journal of Adolescent Health, 57(2), 215-221.
  • Morris, A.S., et al. (2017). *The role of the family context in the

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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The Importance of Mental Health Conversations in African American Communities

In African American communities, the subject of mental health has often been shrouded in silence and stigma. Historically, systemic barriers and a legacy of mistrust towards the healthcare system have compounded this issue, making conversations about mental well-being exceedingly rare. However, as awareness grows, so does the understanding that overcoming stigma is not just necessary but vital for the health and resilience of the community, especially among mothers who bear the brunt of this silence.

Mental health stigma in African American communities is multifaceted. It’s rooted in cultural norms that valorize strength and self-reliance, often interpreting struggles with mental health as weaknesses or personal failings. For African American mothers, this pressure is intensified by societal expectations and the “strong Black woman” archetype, which champions endurance and sacrifice, sometimes at the expense of personal well-being. This internalized stigma can deter mothers from seeking help, fearing judgment or misunderstanding from within their community and beyond.

The silence surrounding mental health issues is not without consequence. It can lead to isolation, untreated mental health conditions, and in severe cases, can be life-threatening. Overcoming this stigma is crucial, requiring a community-wide effort to shift perceptions and foster an environment where mental health is openly discussed and prioritized.

One pathway to breaking down these barriers is through education. Increasing mental health literacy in African American communities can demystify mental health issues, clarifying that they are common, treatable, and not indicative of personal weakness. Community leaders, churches, and organizations can play a pivotal role in this educational effort, offering resources and creating platforms for dialogue.

Moreover, representation matters. Seeing African American mental health professionals can provide reassurance and encourage individuals, particularly mothers, to seek support. It reflects an understanding of cultural nuances and provides care that is both empathetic and informed. Highlighting stories of mental health challenges and recovery can also be powerful, showing that it’s possible to seek help and thrive, despite the difficulties.

Creating safe spaces for conversation is another critical step. Support groups, whether formal or informal, can offer solace and understanding. For African American mothers, these spaces can be a source of strength, allowing them to share experiences, coping strategies, and find communal support.

Ultimately, overcoming stigma around mental health in African American communities, especially among mothers, is about nurturing a culture of compassion, openness, and proactive care. It’s about affirming that mental health struggles are a part of the human experience, deserving of attention and support, not judgment or silence. Through education, representation, and dialogue, we can begin to dismantle the barriers to mental health care, empowering mothers and communities to embrace healing and resilience. This journey towards openness and understanding is not just a path to improved mental health but a testament to the community’s strength and commitment to well-being for all its members.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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The Natural Way to Motherhood’s Well-Being: Exploring Ecotherapy

In the realm of maternal mental health, ecotherapy has emerged as a transformative approach to wellness, tapping into the healing power of nature to nurture the mind, body, and spirit of mothers and their children. As we navigate the challenges of motherhood amidst the hustle and bustle of modern life, the tranquility and beauty of the natural world offer a serene escape, fostering an environment where mothers can find peace, rejuvenation, and a deeper connection with their children.Ecotherapy, or nature therapy, is grounded in the understanding that human well-being is intricately linked to our relationship with the environment. For mothers, this holistic approach can be particularly beneficial, providing a much-needed respite from the stresses of daily life and the emotional roller-coaster that often accompanies parenting. Engaging in outdoor activities, whether it’s a leisurely walk in the park, a family hike through the woods, or simply playing outside with their children, mothers can experience a significant boost in mood, a reduction in anxiety, and an overall enhancement of well-being.The benefits of ecotherapy extend beyond the immediate relief from stress and anxiety. Regular exposure to nature has been shown to increase energy levels, improve sleep quality, and encourage physical activity, all of which contribute to better health and vitality. For children, these outdoor experiences are equally transformative, promoting cognitive development, creativity, and a sense of wonder about the world around them.Moreover, ecotherapy fosters a unique bonding opportunity for mothers and their children. Shared moments in nature can strengthen familial relationships, creating lasting memories and a shared appreciation for the environment. These experiences not only enhance the mother-child bond but also instill values of environmental stewardship and conservation in the next generation.Incorporating ecotherapy into the routine of motherhood doesn’t require grand adventures or extensive travel. Simple activities like gardening, picnicking in a local green space, or observing the stars can provide meaningful encounters with nature. The key is to be present, allowing the senses to fully engage with the natural surroundings, and to let the inherent healing properties of the earth work their magic.As we seek ways to support maternal mental health, the role of ecotherapy stands out as a powerful tool in the healing arsenal. By embracing the natural world, mothers can discover a pathway to greater peace, joy, and well-being, not just for themselves, but for their children as well. In this way, ecotherapy not only heals but also enriches the journey of motherhood, offering a gentle reminder of the beauty and resilience that lies within and around us.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Whole-Hearted Wellness: Embracing Integrative Approaches for African American Mothers

In the realm of mental health, the journey towards wellness for African American mothers is increasingly being viewed through a holistic lens. This integrative approach, which weaves together traditional and alternative healing practices, offers a comprehensive pathway to well-being that honors the intricate connection between mind, body, and spirit. For African American mothers, this method is not just about addressing mental health challenges but about nurturing overall wellness in a way that resonates deeply with their unique experiences and cultural heritage.

The Power of Traditional Healing

Traditional healing practices, deeply rooted in African American culture, have long been a source of strength and comfort. These practices, ranging from spiritual rituals and prayer to the use of medicinal herbs and storytelling, offer a sense of connection to ancestral wisdom and community. They provide a grounding force, reminding mothers of their resilience and the collective support that surrounds them.

The Role of Alternative Therapies

Complementing traditional methods, alternative therapies such as yoga, meditation, and acupuncture are gaining recognition for their ability to enhance mental health. These practices contribute to stress reduction, emotional regulation, and increased self-awareness, helping mothers to cultivate inner peace and balance. By integrating these therapies into their wellness routines, African American mothers can explore new avenues for healing and self-care that align with their personal beliefs and lifestyle.

The Importance of a Supportive Community

At the heart of the holistic approach is the understanding that healing happens not in isolation but within the context of community. Support groups, whether online or in-person, play a crucial role in this journey, offering a space for mothers to share their experiences, challenges, and triumphs. These communities provide emotional support, validation, and the exchange of knowledge about various healing practices, empowering mothers to make informed choices about their well-being.

Mind, Body, Spirit Connection

The holistic approach emphasizes the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. For African American mothers, this means recognizing how emotional stress can manifest physically, how spiritual well-being can influence mental health, and vice versa. By addressing all aspects of their being, mothers can achieve a state of wellness that transcends the absence of illness, leading to a fuller, more vibrant life.

Looking Forward

As we move forward, the importance of integrative and holistic approaches in mental health care for African American mothers cannot be overstated. It’s a call to embrace the full spectrum of healing practices available, honoring the unique paths to wellness each mother walks. In doing so, we not only support the well-being of individual mothers but also contribute to the health and vitality of the entire community.

The journey of African American mothers towards mental health and well-being is a testament to the strength, resilience, and wisdom that define their experience. By embracing a holistic approach, we recognize the depth of their needs and the richness of their heritage, offering support that truly nurtures mind, body, and spirit.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.

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Empowering Black Mothers in the Workplace: How Progressive Companies are Leading the Way in Wellness Support

In the evolving landscape of the modern workforce, mental health and well-being are increasingly recognized as cornerstones of a productive, satisfied, and resilient team. This is particularly true for African American mothers, who often face the dual pressures of career ambitions and the multifaceted responsibilities of motherhood, compounded by societal challenges that can affect their mental health. Acknowledging this, a wave of progressive companies is leading the charge in redefining workplace support, creating environments where African American mothers can not only succeed but thrive.

Companies like Google, American Express, Salesforce, Etsy, Johnson & Johnson, Patagonia, and Accenture have set benchmarks for workplace wellness, each offering a spectrum of support services tailored to the needs of working mothers. From Google’s on-site wellness services and healthcare (Google Careers) to American Express’s Healthy Minds program and backup child care services (American Express Careers), these organizations demonstrate a deep understanding of the importance of mental health and well-being.

Salesforce (Salesforce Careers) and Etsy (Etsy Careers) highlight the value of flexibility and self-care, offering wellness reimbursements and mental health days to ensure employees feel supported. Similarly, Johnson & Johnson’s comprehensive health and wellness programs (Johnson & Johnson Careers) and Patagonia’s on-site child care and flexible schedules (Patagonia Jobs) reflect a commitment to the well-being of working parents.

Accenture stands out with its array of mental health and wellness resources, including extensive support for working parents through flexible arrangements and parental leave (Accenture Careers).

By integrating such wellness programs and resources, these companies acknowledge the unique challenges faced by African American mothers. They provide flexible work arrangements, mental health days, access to counseling, and family-friendly policies, all designed to foster a healthier, more supportive work culture.

For African American mothers, these initiatives are not just perks but essential components of a work environment that respects and supports their well-being. As workplaces continue to evolve, the efforts of these progressive companies shine as examples of how to create inclusive spaces that understand and address the diverse needs of their employees.

The focus on mental health in the workplace, especially for African American mothers, is a critical step toward dismantling barriers and building a more equitable professional landscape. As we move forward, it’s imperative that more organizations follow suit, embracing the practices that have proven successful in supporting the mental health and well-being of all employees, particularly those who have historically been underserved.

With Love, Lakischa Smith

Meet Lakischa Smith, a proud mother and a dedicated public health advocate. With a Bachelor’s from Dillard University and a Master’s in Public Health from Florida International University, she’s committed to sharing honest narratives about black motherhood. Lakischa believes in fostering sisterhood to combat the pervasive forces of white supremacy, and empowering African American women to be agents of change for future generations. She asserts that recognizing and addressing our community’s struggles is crucial, for healing is the key to moving forward. Armed with the power of education and a deep belief in collective action, Lakischa is determined to ensure that the issues impacting African American parenthood aren’t just seen—they’re addressed and resolved.